August 20, 2012
Traditionally, it’s the best man’s responsibility to propose the first toast to the bride and groom. Before the main meal is served at the reception, he is introduced by the master of ceremonies (often the bandleader or maitre d”). He then asks everyone (except you and your groom) to stand. The type of toast he gives is personal. It can be sweet and brief or a bit lengthier, amusing and anecdotal. The sentiment, however, should always be for your future happiness. After his speech, the best man raises his glass and invites other guests to do the same.
If there are other members of the wedding party who wish to give a toast, they may do so, provided the number of toasts is kept to a minimum and the time spent well-wishing is not too long (remember, your guests will be hungry!). After the toast, you and your groom may then rise, express your gratitude, and toast each other.
Unless you are a comedian or politician, don’t try to wing it! Prepare some notes several days ahead, memorize your words and then practice them—out loud. An old sales trick…when before preparing a speech always rehearse in the mirror so you can be aware of your facial expressions. Trust me, I have seen some rotten looking faces as someone is giving what is supposed to be a, Happy Moment.
It is fine to use your notes during your toast. When it is time, stand up and take the microphone, if there is one. If multiple guest are wanting to toast, take turns.
“A toast to you, a toast to me, a toast living happily!”
-Blush 129, Inc.
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Emily S. Burton
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